Contributed to CBC Diversity by Cris Beam
I was honored when I was asked to write a Diversity 101 post about transgender identity. Honored and a little daunted. Because while I’ve written two books on the topic, I’m not transgender—and speaking about always ends up becoming speaking for. Which is part of the problem with gender representations in general: who gets to speak for whom? Especially in children’s literature where gender variance is, well, not so variant yet, I know I’m walking into hot water. The scarcity of GLBT (accent on the T) depictions yields strong opinions as to how we should talk—and write—about the few transgender characters we have.
People used to say
that transgender was an umbrella term to encompass all kinds of gender
variance—from drag king to transsexual to the little boy who wears tutus
to play with his trucks. While the umbrella concept’s fallen out of
favor somewhat, the core idea is useful: there are a myriad of ways to
express one’s sense of self. Transgender is fundamentally an internal
identity wherein one’s understanding of self is different from the body
one was born with. The expression part is separate, and can range from
wearing different clothing to undergoing medical procedures to doing
nothing at all. The bottom line is, only transgender people can decide
that they’re trans, and it’s up to the rest of us to support and
celebrate that.